Tulpa.info - tulpa-questions

Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 5/9/2023 12:43 AM

Parasitic tulpa

why?

For fun

For an easy life.

Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗

Parasitic tulpa

why so?

Why not?

Also point in creating a tulpa =/= long term purpose of tulpa

why would anyone want a parasitic headmate? (edited)

I think it was lighthearted

It was, but technically, a lot more usbin this system provide nothing more than their friendship.

12:54 AM

AKA filthy freeloading bums. (Joke)

12:54 AM

Of us*

That’s the best purpose imo

No one in my system was created intentionally or with any kind of purpose

1:05 AM

There is no reason for them to exist

1:05 AM

That’s not meant to be a joke or insulting them, it’s literally just the truth

1:07 AM

Everyone is important and life would suck a little bit more if I didn’t have them around but they aren’t there to be my friends. They are, but they weren’t ‘made’ to be.

1:09 AM

The only reason I have a system now really only boils down to just me feeling guilty

Guilty about? Potentially getting rid of/dissipating them?

Oh that’s one hell of a long story

Same, we just exist as we are, we do pay our rent by fronting once a month lol

Atlas ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ ↩️

Reply to: It was, but technically, a lot more usbin this system provide nothing more than their friendship.

Damn I gotta get my tulpas paying rent

My system pays rent by proving me with a family.

1:22 AM

Providing*

Milk

Guilty about? Potentially getting rid of/dissipating them?

Long story made extremely short Was just trying to roleplay Accidentally makes tulpas, doesn’t know what tulpas are Completely fucked over Error and made him really mad at me I’m fucking terrified of him and don’t know what to do about it I feel like shit and want to make amends Took an actual IRL year to do so Now I’m here (edited)

Rusty

Long story made extremely short Was just trying to roleplay Accidentally makes tulpas, doesn’t know what tulpas are Completely fucked over Error and made him really mad at me I’m fucking terrified of him and don’t know what to do about it I feel like shit and want to make amends Took an actual IRL year to do so Now I’m here (edited)

That does not sound fun tbh

my condolences

That's a similar situation to what our original got themselves into 4 years ago (Luci became sentient 5 years back but it took a year for our original to figure out that Luci was a person with feelings) with their tulpa Lucifer, they keep a respectful distance from each other now (edited)

Rusty ↩️

Reply to: Long story made extremely short Was just trying to roleplay Accidentally makes tulpas, doesn’t know…

Same with Ben and Matt.

1:34 AM

sorry, Ben and Mason.

1:34 AM

They're on civil terms, and they'll show up for one another if needed, but they generally don't really interact much.

Yeah, Lucifer shows up to be like "are you behaving yourself?" every so often

I think the two of them would make good friends, all things considered.

1:42 AM

Mason and Ben share a lot of interests.

1:42 AM

I'm not particularly close with either, but I'd say I'm closer to mason than bennett.

Oh, I see

1:45 AM

That makes sense, Luci and our original have essentially opposite interests

That's understandable. A lot of us in our system wouldn't get along, not because we dislike one another, but because we don't share any common interests.

1:48 AM

Or at least, enough common interests to warrant friendship.

1:48 AM

It's funny with Ben and Seth, though. They have many opposing traits, but the similarities they do have compliment one another.

Yeah, a lot of people in our system have a very small circle of friends, there are a lot of overlapping friendships though

Same here.

Hey yall. I have found active forcing to be especially difficult today. It is hard to explain but everything is chaotic and messy. Passive forcing has been a breeze though. Is there a reason for this? (edited)

Stress makes active forcing more difficult in our experience

^

And exhaustion.

question! so im currently creating a tulpa named deimos, he's chill and already talking, tho ofc we still have a while to go. he's a little anti social with a low social battery. is it natural for tulpas to not really be when not actively thinking about them in the beginning? like i have to call on him.

Yeah, that's pretty normal in the beginning

okay! also sorry that was a jumble of words

That's alright

i already have some tulpa experience, but not necessarily on purpose + i have no idea where they went. so it's a bit weirder to actually be aware of the beginning stages

Hay everyone, I'm sorry but I don't know if anyone asked about this before, but do you guys believe in shifting? And if you do have you ever shifted to your wonderland to see your tulpa? Because I'm curious if my Tulpa will be there in my DR or it well be just a normal character that looks like my tulpa

@Sellato - jump what do you mean by shifting?

11:09 AM

reality shifting?

I mean shifting reality or reality shifting

how shifting to wonderland would work in your opinion?

11:12 AM

as in what would you do and what effects do you expect

Like how reality shifting work

11:17 AM

I'm sorry I didn't understand your question

Sellato

Hay everyone, I'm sorry but I don't know if anyone asked about this before, but do you guys believe in shifting? And if you do have you ever shifted to your wonderland to see your tulpa? Because I'm curious if my Tulpa will be there in my DR or it well be just a normal character that looks like my tulpa

do you mean being able to see your tulpa physically in ur dr? if so then yes, they're going to behave and look exactly like your tulpa unless you script them differently. they're literally your tulpa, just in a different reality,, they're basically the same person im not sure how to explain i hope this was clear enough im not too sure if your tulpa can "shift" with you (as in them staying in your mind if you shift) as shifting is basically just moving your awareness from one reality to another if you scripted to have them still be there in your mind, they might be slightly(?) different from the tulpa in your cr i might try to experiment on this but for now this is all of the information i have sorry for the late response

1

11:28 AM

this is just my theory, so take it with a grain of salt. this may or may not be true

Hay everyone, I'm sorry but I don't know if anyone asked about this before, but do you guys believe in shifting?

Lucilyn: No (edited)

11:32 AM

you need more than a grain of salt when talking about arbitrarily changing to different realities

11:32 AM

imagination at any level of immersion is fine, but when your beliefs get meta it starts to get unhealthy

I'm sorry I didn't understand your question

@Sellato - jump i’m asking what you mean by that so i don’t make any assumptions

Sellato

Hay everyone, I'm sorry but I don't know if anyone asked about this before, but do you guys believe in shifting? And if you do have you ever shifted to your wonderland to see your tulpa? Because I'm curious if my Tulpa will be there in my DR or it well be just a normal character that looks like my tulpa

Can your tulpa hang out in their own wonderland outside your attention? Ultimately I don't know. I know many people have reported that experience, and while I'm skeptical I think there is something interesting going on for sure. Even if it's not exactly what you expect, it could be a lot of fun. As for reality shifting literally transporting you to another world? No, I do not.

twinkzai

do you mean being able to see your tulpa physically in ur dr? if so then yes, they're going to behave and look exactly like your tulpa unless you script them differently. they're literally your tulpa, just in a different reality,, they're basically the same person im not sure how to explain i hope this was clear enough im not too sure if your tulpa can "shift" with you (as in them staying in your mind if you shift) as shifting is basically just moving your awareness from one reality to another if you scripted to have them still be there in your mind, they might be slightly(?) different from the tulpa in your cr i might try to experiment on this but for now this is all of the information i have sorry for the late response

Thanks, I liked your theory, and yeah I think your right it makes more sense for him to be out of my mind because his literally in front of me, I do believe that my tulpa has his own life in Wonderland, so it's gonna be like visiting him in his world

Sellato

Thanks, I liked your theory, and yeah I think your right it makes more sense for him to be out of my mind because his literally in front of me, I do believe that my tulpa has his own life in Wonderland, so it's gonna be like visiting him in his world

yeah probably, it mostly depends on what you script tbh

Leiko

I'm sorry I didn't understand your question

@Sellato - jump i’m asking what you mean by that so i don’t make any assumptions

I mean yeah it's like reality shifting, you imagine the world you wanna shift to and the script is gonna be your wonderland and that you meet your tulpa there

I personally don't have a strong stance on reality shifting but i tend to think it's just an intense state of altered consciousness I've been trying to "shift" (as well as lucid dream) to my wonderland to hang out with my headmates for a while now and it hasn't worked so far but i'll update you if it does

what you are describing to me would be in the approach and effect indistinguishable from daydreaming with developed phantasia, with additional narrative on top of thag

4:32 PM

so i do believe it is possible but you might be misguided as to what is actually happening and what stands behind your experience

1

(or maladaptive daydreaming)

Is it natural to hear your tulpa clearer at night? (No I am not half asleep). It seems that I can almost hear my tulpas under specific circumstances

@Hooli (post from https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431633737596272640/1106087869522645015 ) Recent answer about "getting rid of tulpas" (called "dissipation") https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431895651266330644/1093589817255792660 (edited)

I'm very curious what their context is. Sometimes a dissipation situation becomes a stasis or just resolve some problem with your tulpas situation. Otherwise, while refusing to let your tulpa be active is definitely part of the process, I think the overall process includes more steps. Some hosts need to grieve, even if they don't having the tulpa understand what's going on can give a sense of closure. There's also symbolism (no need for anything violent) and then post-dissipation (including not panicking if you see your tulpa show up spontaneously)

Lucilyn: They were concise so so was I (edited)

9:46 AM

they'll ask for more info if that wasn't enough, I guess

Fair enough

can't go all out on every simple question (or at least, not when the question/topic was already covered in depth recently) or you'll burn out

I wasn't around for that question hence me chiming in with more detail

9:49 AM

But given how I am, an in-depth discussion a month ago on dissipation is worth another in-depth explanation in my eyes. I don't think tulpamancy topics wear me out as much

Reisen

@Hooli (post from https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431633737596272640/1106087869522645015 ) Recent answer about "getting rid of tulpas" (called "dissipation") https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431895651266330644/1093589817255792660 (edited)

As for dissipation timeframes- I think a tulpa's sense of self and their will to exist play a role in how effective the dissipation is. When Spirit dissipated himself, he was actually falling apart while he was telling people goodbye. Over the span of 3 weeks, he went from stable to a very, very weak tulpa. Jasper used to be an active member of our system, but he struggled with his sense of self and when he dissipated quickly there wasn't much left to cause problems. While Spirit and Jasper were older tulpas who's ages don't reflect their development, they both had at least several months worth of forcing under their belt and were comparable to a tulpa younger than a year old. It's also worth keeping in mind both of them lead the process however I don't know if the brain has an official neuron "deconstruction" process or not, but that's what happened for us

(edited)

Can I ask, when your first start to actually hear your tulpa, is it kinda scary/freaky a little? I feel I might not really like hearing voices so I'm still unsure but idek if I actually have a tulpa tbh

nope not scary. Totally natural and normal feeling. In fact, it will likely sound a lot like your own thoughts at first

3:05 AM

it feels like thinking

Yeah but it's extremely hard for me to tell cause I hear my loud thoughts but then I hear quiet ones but I'm just unsure

3:05 AM

Or if I'm my spirit team idk

1. Try asking 2. Is this something you feel like they would have said? I’ve found going off vibes like that can be very effective.

3:06 AM

spirit team?

Like spirit guides

I have no knowledge in that area.

I know I could ask but my ego or something will wanna say yes and ah

3:09 AM

Might be something that would interest you

do the vibe check thing then

Vibe check?

as I said

3:09 AM

checking the vibe

uMmm for me their voices sounded very similar to mine and it took a lot of sorting to separate us? my recommendation would be to sit down somewhere quiet and talk to the other voices. as skyler said, vibe check

~~not me having to Google vibe again~~